Being a new mama there is just so much that you are trying to figure out and this feeling that if you get it wrong the world will judge you…
I’ve spent a lot of time telling mamas how we need to stop judging each other as a whole and embrace that each mom, each baby and each home has their own way of making it work… and if we come from a place of love as a mom, we will do just fine…
But I came across a truth recently… and it freed me so much… see, I had this moment while listening to someone wiser than me that made me realize that the world is going to judge you no matter what…
You will be judged for breastfeeding… you will be judged for giving your little a bottle… You will be judged for sleep training… you will be judged for co-sleeping… You will be judged for wearing your baby… you will be judged for leaving them with a nanny… You will be judged by someone out there for every. single. choice…
Every. last. one…
So why not take that knowledge that you will be judged and embrace it… know that you will be judged and decide what you will be judged for… decide what you believe for yourself and stand for it being right for you and your baby… know why you are doing it and don’t let anyone deter you from what you know is best for your baby… because no one knows your little one… and the only judgement that matter’s is theirs… So love that little one mama, and leave the haters to hate… We will win with love…
XOXO
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